Wednesday, May 9, 2012

How Do I Give A Lap Dance Without Looking Like A Fool?

By Sean T Saunders


Nowadays, lap dancing is gaining immense popularity and this form of dancing is featured in many night clubs that cater to men but many ladies are not aware that they can give their partner this special treat right in the comforts of their own home. Learning how to give a lap dance is not difficult and could be done by reading articles on the subject or watching demonstration video clips. Here we have discussed a couple of facts related to lap dancing, such as how to dress, how to create a suitable setting and how to give a lap dance in a way which will make any woman sensuous and attractive so that her partner gets impressed with her.

1. Practice Makes Perfect - In order to learn how to give a lap dance you will need to practice the moves. For this you will require an armchair and preferably a partner. However, if this dance performance is planned as a surprise for your spouse then you will have to use an empty chair. When you have the company of your partner, make him seated comfortably on an armchair with his hands on the sides, so that they don't come in way of your performance. Make sure that he is aware of the basic rule of lap dance; no touching while the dance performance is on.

2. Sexy Outfit - The lap dancer's outfit is important to help set an erotic mood. Women should consider sexy outfits or lace lingerie which excites their partner and make sure that they are comfortable wearing it. There is no hard and fast rules, any kind of outfits can be chosen as long as their partner finds it sexy and erotic.

3. Set the Scene - For the lap dance performance to work well, you need to make sure that room where the performance is intended to take place, is suitably decorated to give the romantic feel . There is no need to make any major alterations but giving some thought to create a romantic ambiance would just be sufficient. You can use scented candles and other decorative items. The light fittings of the room can be draped with colored scarves to create a dimly lit feel. Choice of music is also very important and it should go well with your dance performance steps. Choose music that helps to create a sexy mood. The music can vary in tempo according to your dance routine. It is important that you are not distracted in any way while doing the lap dance. Now lets talk about how to lap dance in a sexy and arousing way.

4. Show Your Assets - To make the dance performance a success, learn and practice some of the best erotic dance moves. You can find relevant information on many websites. Demonstration video clips by professional performers could be of great help. The recipient should be made seated comfortably on a chair with his hands placed on the sides. Start the music you have chosen and move towards your partner in an erotic way while keeping eye contact with him.. Then rest one knee in between the partner's legs and place your hands over the back of the chair. Arch your back to make your breasts prominent and move your body slowly in a sensual figure eight. Rest one of your elbows on the arm rest of the chair and raise your leg over the back of the chair then slowly move your hands all the way down to your ankle and then in the opposite direction. Slide your body slowly down your partner so that your breasts, belly and hips contact him.

5. Dramatic Conclusion - The dance performer should now stand up slowly and sensuously while turning around to give her partner a good look at her legs, hips and buttocks while arching her back and slowly running her hands down the full length of her legs and back up again. She should then gently touch her crotch with one finger while turning her head to give her partner a sexy look. Then the dancer should take a couple of steps to move closer to her partner while her back is still presented to him and keeping her hands on the arm rest of the chair she should lower herself into the partners lap until she is hovering just over his crotch. Next she should move her butt and hips sensually in a circular motion. This completes the lap dance performance and now she can inform her partner that he is free to use his hands now!




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